disclaimer : i used to post similar entry back then but that one was a meme and this one is a revised version since taste and preferences changes as years goes by. it may induce vomitting :D *dont say i didnt warn you..hahaha* jangan risau, saya masih bujang lagi
recollection of fb feed observation:
a got boyfriend, b is engaged, c is married, d is pregnant and e is expecting another child!
AND ALL THOSE SITUATIONS HAPPENS TO PEOPLE WHO ARE SAME AGE LIKE ME! its normal for situation a, b and c but d and e? omg, you gotta be joking! haha. thank God, im not having peer pressure or parents sudah tanya or saudara dah bising2 tanya :D but yeah, i gotta embrace this issue whether i like it or not ;) we can't run away from reality, aren't we?
the first step to all situation above is definitely searching for 'the one'. seriously aku tak terpikir langsung nak mencari *byk benda lain yg lebih menuntut perhatian dan kasih sayang aku* tapi aku start terpikir apabila sudah beberapa orang tanya kat aku, what kind of guy do i like? thanks for asking and it got me thinking what are the criterias i am looking for in a guy. kawan aku kata ko kena pikir and start visualize all those criterias to make it come true. kiranya law of attraction la ni. hehe. ada sorang lagi cakap u can attract a guy yang sama wavelength dengan u dan yang dulu2 tu tak payah pikir dah. inipun konsep law of attraction jugak. geng2 kumbang ni laju je pikir bab2 ni. hahahaha. tapi bagus la korg bagi kesedaran kat aku before all good ladybirds are taken and off the market :P
terigt time borak dgn member perempuan dulu, "faridah, kita ni dah kena mula doa tentang jodoh kita, jgn bila dah jumpa org tu kita doa dialah jodoh kita". ye tak ye jugak, bila dah jumpa yg specific baru nak doa mungkin dia bukan yang terbaik utk kita. sebaiknya doa kepada Allah ciri-ciri apa yang kita nak pada jodoh kita.
honestly, aku ni takde lah cerewet sangat. ciri2 nyata yang aku nak ada pd kebykan lelaki :P
first, tinggi. i just love walking beside tall guys. jgn risau aku ni pendek je. ni konfem dah boleh tick. hehe. rasa protected bila jalan sebelah diorg :P
second, tak merokok. ini aku malas nak elaborate lebih. rasanya geng kumbang paham kan. buang duit, mati cepat, bau busuk..ape lagi? hahaha
see, aku takdelah memilih :P takkan dua tu je kan. mesti la ada lagi. hahaha. i have always envisioned my relationship gradually blossom from friendship into love then into marriage. besides, there is an equal partnership in the relationship. neither side is dominating but instead we complete each other. we can put up with each others shortcomings and do things together comfortably. i want him not only as my husband but also my best friend in this world :D oh ye, romantik pun kena ada jugak kadang2. hehe. finally, if my family give me their blessing, im all yours! haha
kita merancang, Tuhan yang menentukan. InsyaAllah when the time comes, i am ready for next step. for now, i am content with my life :) nak enjoy zaman bujang dulu..kekekeke